7) Neither of you holds a long-standing grudge against the other, nor are you unwilling to forgive them.
While occasional conflict in relationships is normal, brooding and lingering resentment is not. People who are unable to let go of past hurts are usually unable to maintain a relationship because they will inevitably find a reason to resent the other person. Healthy people find ways to let go of such wounds with time and forgiveness. Forgiveness is part of any healthy relationship; refusing forgiveness is like refusing love.
if you and your partner are able to forgive each other with an open heart, You are in the right relationship